if i’m being real…

I miss the good old days of blogging. The days where not everyone and their mom had one. The days where blogs were BLOGS and not informational websites or online magazines.

On a completely unrelated note, most of the time there’s a lollipop hidden somewhere in my purse.

99% of the spring/summer clothes I’ve gotten recently are white.

When I say “whatever, I don’t care” - it means I definitely 100% do care.

I eat at least a spoonful of peanut (or almond) butter a day.

I was on a date last week where a guy made me feel dumb for believing what I believe. I didn’t like that.

Speaking of the opposite sex, I think this quote via Pinterest really nailed it.

I don’t own any designer clothes. Not by New York’s standards, at least.

Going to the movies is one of my tippy top favorite things to do, but I haven’t been in months.

Did I really just say tippy top?

I’m really good at glamorizing/romanticizing things. It’s a blessing and a curse.

I’m trying to become a better listener. I think I’m already decent at it, but I want to be better.

I’m also working on being less hard on myself. So far, so good!

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Your turn! Be real with me about…something. Anything.

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Gym things.

More Juice Press goodness. This time their Anytime Taco.

Juice Press Anytime Taco

Sometimes ya just have to ditch the makeup for a day.

And sometimes it’s time to trade in all black attire for the lighter side.

neutrals

On Saturday we had brunch at one of my favorite spots, The Fat Radish.

The Fat Radish NYC

Bloody Mary, The Fat Radish NYC

I can’t not get their avocado toast…

Avocado Toast with Spicy Eggs, The Fat Radish NYC

Epstein’s is always fun for some Saturday silliness.

lol Mon.

Fuel to keep the fun going into nighttime…

A random pup in a cup. Clearly blog-worthy.

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Last but not least, this…

Proverbs 30:5

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What’s been the highlight of your weekend so far?

scenes from the weekend.

Weekends are always a fun time, but they’re especially great now that I live within walking distance of most of my favorite places in the city.

…like St. Paul’s German Church, where we had an amazing Liberty Sisterhood gathering on Friday.

Followed by a cozy late night dinner at the Meatball Shop.

Then after a few hours of bopping around we ended up at the “neighborhood club.”

In case you missed everyone’s Instagram updates, the weather in the Northeast this weekend was per-fec-tion. No winter coat necessary!

And springy nails to match.

The West Village was doing all sorts of showing off.

We brunched 13 people strong at De Santos.

I’m thankful that Rachel likes splitting meals as much as I do. Why on earth get one entrée when you can have two?

We kicked the new week off right with a visit to the gym on Sunday morning.

(Sunglasses to cover up the post-gym roughness, ha.)

With a weekly Quest Bar restock on the way home, of course.

Spring-ish attire, day two.

Dinner of lazy folk champions.

(This was actually really good!)

Last but not last is the most special part of my weekend. This is Ayanda, the adorable little girl from Zimbabwe that I’m so blessed to sponsoring through Children’s Cup.

I’ll leave you with some inspiration for the week ahead…

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What was the highlight of your weekend?

thankful thursday.

Today I’m thankful for…

Exceedingly, abundantly.

(Ephesians 3:20)

Gel manis. Especially after making necklaces.

Your responses to this post <3

The beginning of many adventures with Rachel…that may or may not have gone until sunrise.

The FreelyBe February Playlist. Even though I made it. So…thanks, self.

My sometimes out-of-control imagination.

The February Bestowed box, for introducing me to Santa Barbara bars. I had the Coconut Almond one – LOVED it!

Santa Barbara bar

People watching.

Amy’s frozen meals. For those extra lazy days.

That I’m finally starting to feel better!

Spring fever. 27 DAYS…but whose counting…

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What are you thankful for today?

#LEAN14 guest post: april on mindfulness.

Something that I really want to make sure I always convey when I blog about health & fitness is the importance of mental, emotional, and spiritual health. To me, those are actually more important than physical health.

That’s when I was so excited when my friend April reached out and suggested a guest post on mindfulness. See below for more info about April, and feel free to follow her on Instagram.

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Whether it is working towards a career goal, working towards a physical health goal, or a relationship goal, there are always numerous things calling our attention. It can be easy to get caught up in all of those aspects of life and forget to keep your mental/emotional health in check. Mindfulness can be used in large and small capacities to make a difference in how we manage stress, acknowledge feelings both pleasant and unpleasant, or just slow down and enjoy the moment. Essentially it is being present with your body and mind and not judging anything that you are aware of in that moment. For some people that means daily meditation but for others, small changes to every day life are enough to practice awareness.

When it comes to leading a healthy lifestyle, eating right and exercising are always the first changes we make, but incorporating mindful exercises can help to integrate that healthy lifestyle as a whole. Not being present with our experiences, no matter what the experience is, means we are not fully living our lives. And lets be serious, no matter how great our bodies feel, a relaxed, confident and compassionate mind can really give you that extra boost.

Here are 5 ways to incorporate mindfulness into your every day.

1. Look at your food (Mindful Eating)

Too often we are rushing through meals. Take the time to really taste what are you putting in your body. Try not to get caught up in something else while eating like emails or Netflix. Notice the texture and taste differences in your food. Take slow and intentional bites and savor it. Slowing down your eating is also good for digestion. Bonus!

2. Deep Breathing

Learning to take deep breaths instead of shallow breaths can make a world of difference. Take some small stickers and place them in different areas around your home and workspace. See them as a reminder to take three deep breaths. This creates a physiological response of calming and requires a focus on the here and now.

3. Give yourself Compassion

One of the foundations of mindfulness is to be non-judgmental. This can be especially hard for women who tend to be very critical of themselves. First thing in the morning, take a look in the mirror and think something positive about yourself. When you get caught up in negative self-talk, say to yourself what you would say to a friend in the same situation. We deserve the same compassion and kindness we give others.

4. Body Scan

Our bodies can tell us a lot about how we are feeling emotionally or if there is something we are avoiding. Take time throughout the day to check in with your body. Notice if your shoulders and neck feel sore or tight. Maybe there is extra stress at work or you are avoiding talking to a friend about something. Either way, being aware of any discomfort or comfort in your body brings you back to the moment of being in your own body. And if there is discomfort, there’s perfect excuse for a massage!

5. Mindful Routine

Think of something you do every day that you do quickly or usually without much thought; for some this may be cooking, laundry or showering. Try being completely aware and present next time you do one of these activities. Pay attention to every detail of it. Notice what it takes physically for you to cut up vegetables or shampoo your hair. This can help you slow down and be more present for even the most mundane chores.

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5. Movement

This can be applied to movement for exercise such as focusing on muscles, posture and breath in order to properly execute workouts or focusing on simple movements such as walking. This creates conscious thoughts about moving your body rather than just going through the motions. Not only will it decrease risk of injury for physical health but create a more solid connection and awareness of what your body is capable of.

Integrating mindfulness is a process and it won’t happen overnight. It requires continuous practice. So making small changes to your day-to-day routine can be the easiest way to practice that awareness. Learning how to keep the distractions of our worlds at bay can provide great insight, gratitude, and inspiration. Most importantly it is an integral part of living a healthy lifestyle, the bringing together of the body and the mind.

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BIO:

April Grant has her Masters in both Clinical Social Work and Human Sexuality. She is currently employed by a non-profit, where she provides individual and group therapy for clients and is working towards her licensure. She resides in Wilmington, Delaware with her husband and energetic pug. April was introduced to mindfulness both through yoga and through a mindfulness course she completed and has found benefits of utilizing it with clients and her personal life.

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Do you practice mindfulness? In what ways?
Where do you need the most improvement when it comes to being mindful?

thankful thursday.

Today I am thankful for…

My new apartment!!!! (pix to come!)

…specifically, my new neighborhood.

…and new roommate!

The many people who not only support me, but are continuously encouraging and cheering me on.

Garnier De-Constructed Beach Chic spray.

Bed Bath & Beyond and their crazy/amazing organizational products.

Good old fashioned movie dates.

January almost being over. It was a good month, but a bit of a “fighting” one, if that makes sense…

An earlier church service on Sunday so we can all watch the Super Bowl :)

“I love life” moments.

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What are you thankful for today?
What sort of month was January for you?

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Hi hiiii from Pennsylvania.

It’s cozy here.

Rewind to last week where my parents and I had lunch at Gotham West Market before leaving NYC. I loved this place.

Also something I loved – getting a ride home instead of taking the train. I felt like, really VIP.

I arrived to a very Christmas-y house with lots of decorations…

…and lots of treats. Thanks, dad’s clients.

I did my best to balance out the treats, though. Green smoothies to the rescue.

More glimpses from the past few days…

Skyline over the Philadelphia airport.

Sushi fix.

Intense morning coffee.

That house that always overdoes it.

A little visitor.

I <3 HIIT.

Morning walk/runs outside aren’t so bad either.

Don’t fear your weakness…

…embrace it.

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What’s your favorite thing about being home for the holidays?

scenes from the weekend.

Yesterday NYC got its first snow of the season!

I love how magical the city becomes when it snows. Messy and inconvenient, but still magical.

Rewind to Saturday, where I took R&R to the next level by way of my room’s blackout curtains…

…complete with watching an arguably embarrassing amount of episodes of HIMYM. That’s what the weekends are for, right?

On the fashion front: I went all girly with florals + layered gold necklaces. Always a good combo.

An even better combo? All. Black. Everything.

No weekend is complete without a delicious brunch. This one was brought to Rachel and I by one of my favorites, The Smith.

On Sunday I also got a brief play date with one of my favorite gals (insert cutesie face emoji).

The weekend was wrapped up with church, and some more of the snowy night :)

As usual, will leave you with some inspiration to start off your week!

Image Via Curated Quotes

What was the highlight of your weekend? Did you get snow too?