If you’ve been a reader of GML for the past few months, you’ve probably noticed my numerous mentions of a “big decision” that I’ve been in the process of making. It has been difficult for me to keep the secret for so long, but I knew that I had to wait until I could get all of my ducks in a row, so to speak. I hate to even refer to it as a secret because it’s not that I’ve been trying to hide anything…I just wasn’t yet ready to share all the details.
But now I am!
In just a few short weeks, I’ll be moving from my humble abode in Pennsylvania to Long Island, New York.
I am utterly and unbelievably excited about this.
While career opportunities are definitely a part of the equation, that is not my primary reason for moving (I’ll get into those details another time). So…what is? There are actually a number of reasons, which can pretty much be summed up by saying:
I need this. I crave newness!
Although I am extremely blessed to have an amazing family and living situation right now, I have been incredibly discontent ever since I graduated college a year ago. With that being said, though, this past year has hands down been the best of my life because I have learned so much about myself and what I want out of life. I’ve also learned that despite being mature in many areas, there are also still many things that I need to learn and experience for myself. Living at home and in the same area that I’ve lived for the majority of my life is just not where I feel like I should be right now. It’s time for me to, well…launch.
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I want to learn to depend on myself more. Even more importantly – I need to learn how to depend on GOD more. It’s been so easy for me to play it safe in this cookie-cutter little life of mine, but unless I step out my comfort zone, this will be all I’ll ever know. I could go on and on and on, but…I guess that’s the gist of it.
Am I excited? Absolutely. Am I scared? Absolutely.
I’ve never taken a leap like this, and I have no idea what to expect. I’m anxious to see how I’ll react and deal with certain situations, but that’s where trusting in God comes in. I have to have faith that He will take care of me and that He is leading me to New York for a reason.
Thankfully New York is not *that* far from home, so I’ll still be able to see my parents often. Not only that, but the majority of my closest friends already live there 
I can’t help but think that there are some great times ahead.
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So…that’s that! I can tell you one thing – the title of this blog has never been more fitting. So here’s to…LIFE.
Has anyone else taken a similar leap? How’d it go??
Good luck on your move! That is exciting news.
I once made a similar decision. I live in Georgia (born and raised here) and when I went to college, I decided I needed something new. I ended up going to Rochester, New York. It was the best decision ever. I made lifelong friends there and had the most amazing time. That was actually where I came out of my shell a little bit too. It was awesome!
Congratulations!! That’s such awesome news and it’s amazing you’re taking a leap like that. You know what they say, you can’t grow without change.
That is exciting news!!! And I love how happy it makes you sound.
Congrats! You’re going to love living on Long Island. I lived there for a year going to grad school and doing an internship. There is always so much to do because you’re close to the city and the beach, vineyards, etc. It was scary (I moved from Ohio), but I learned to trust God to take care of me. Congrats again!
That’s Awesome girl! I’m so excited for you. You will be successful in anything you put your mind to as long as you lean on God! Good Luck and I can’t wait to hear all about it!
Congrats on your new adventure ahead! I moved half way across the country with a suitcase, no job, and no clue but it all works out. Thats the beauty of it! Just follow your bliss girl.
Oh my gosh, this is SO FREAKING EXCITING! I’m so happy for you, Gracie and I KNOW that things will turn out well. I’ll be taking that same leap of faith at the end of the summer when I finally move out of my parents house. I’ll be moving to the city and finally starting university. I’m ecstatic and can’t wait! This is going to be such a life changing experience for you.
Yay, this is so exciting for you! I’m so glad you’re doing what you feel you need to do.
I took a leap when I switched out of my science degree to a nutrition degree. Luckily it was the right choice for me because I love it!
This is very exciting! As 29, I’ve taken many leaps and moves and risks and I don’t regret even one of them. Like you said, you’ll learn and grow in a way you probably wouldn’t be able to at home in the security and comfort of familiarity. It will be fun for us to follow this new chapter of your life.
Susan says
A year after graduating university, I found myself miserable and depressed in my small home province. So I moved halfway across the country to Canada’s largest city to pursue a brand new career. Words cannot express how utterly SCARED I was about it. But I knew deep down it was a leap I needed to make.
Hands down, best decision I’ve ever made. I feel like an active participant of my life again opposed to just getting through every day. I’m actually thinking about moving back home eventually, but I’m a lot more at peace with that knowing I’ve gone out at experienced life a little more.
You are going to have an AMAZING time
ah so excited for you! As I was graduating college I signed a lease to stay in that small Iowa town (with my then, boyfriend) and took a job there as well. I did it because it was the easy decision, I did it because it felt safe. Funny that the day pen went to paper in apt. and job, that boyfriend cheated on me (a-hole). So I made the tough decision to move home to Minnesota. The decision to do that wasnt easy, I felt like I was giving up on so much, HOWEVER…I never realized that my life hadnt even begun yet. There was so much to see, and so much out there…even if it was right back where I started. That is why I am so excited for you… your life is just now begininng. I see big things in your future. CONGRATS!
xo-Molly
oh boy, very exciting gracie
I was waiting to hear what it would be! CONGRATS!!
I moved just an hour and half from home when I graduated a year ago, it was crazy at first, but I’ve been living here for a year now and it’s amazing to be do independent!
Congrats Gracie! I’m beyond excited for you - I can’t wait to hear the job details.
SOO excited for you my love!!
cannot wait to see where the Lord takes you!
So excited for you!! The first very big move for me was when I spent a year abroad in Scotland (I’m from Germany) and could only see my family a few times … I just HAD to jump in and do everything by myself! And it was the best thing I ever could have done!! I still have close friends there (as I have in Australia where I spent a couple of months twice) and get “homesick”
quite a lot now! Congratulations on that decision- it’ll be awesome!
This is very exciting news! As it is widely known, a rolling stone gathers no moss!
Can’t wait for the NY stories!
I’m late, but CONGRATS Gracie!! SO excited for you!
Leap of faith for me? Transferring to the university I’m at now. I was about to graduate from a community college, decided to visit my dream university, and fell in love. Unfortunately, dream school is not cheap. I remember praying, “God, I want to go here, but I don’t know how I’m gonna pay for it! If You want me here, Lord, then please provide the finances.” and guess what? He did.
I’m so happy and excited for you, Gracie!
I just think you made the right move.
Wish you tons of luck, love!
Aww I am so excited for you, Gracie! I think it’s awesome that you are taking a leap of faith and relying on God in the midst of changes. “We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.” ~Proverbs 29:11 You inspire me to get outside of my own “box!”
Last year, I moved to Spain…and I met the love of my life! No regrets!! Go for it
CONGRATULATIONS GRACIE!!! You are amazing and so brave! Wishing you all the best!
Barbara
Hi Gracie!! I know you posted this a while back, but I never really “knew” your backstory, so I am doing a little bloggy-stalking (hope you don’t mind, ha!)
I’m so happy that you made the dicision to step out of your comfort zone. I kind of did the same thing when I graduated from college. Instead of going home to live with my mom, I moved to Charlotte the day after graduation, not knowing a soul. Scary, but so worth it. Two and a half years later, I now consider Charlotte my “home”. I’ve made a life for myself I am happy with her… met a boy, bounced around between jobs (stilllll looking for a fulltime job, but I did just go back to school part-time, so I guess that’s a step forward), moved in with said boy, adopted a dog… just really taking thigns day by day, but I’m finding each step very enjoyable! I think if I had gone back home and waited until I had a plan to move out, I’d still be stuck there. I don’t think you can plan life, it just happens!
ahh, thank you for that!! Your story is definitely an encouragement to me