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My name is Gracie. I'm a twenty-something recent college grad on a mission to live a happy, healthy, and fulfilling life...while having fun along the way!

Feel free to contact me at gracie@girlmeetslife.com





10 lines you should never fall for.

…and how to respond to them.

1. “I’m going to take you on a date” or “we should go out some time.” Until it’s on my calendar, sweets, I don’t believe a word you say.

2. “You’re the coolest girl I know.” Friendship flag noted.

3. “Definitely give me a call.” We’ll never speak again? Got it.

4. “I just really love hanging out with you.” He’s just not that into me.

5. “I want to get to know you.” This one is tricky. If you’re on a date, then he could really mean it. If you’re at a bar/club….run for the hills.

6. “I don’t usually like blondes, but you’re soo gorgeous.” I’m not usually rude to people, but you’re an idiot.

7. “You look like you’re a good dancer.” Well there goes your chance of finding out.

8. “Nice to meet you, Tracey.”
“No, it’s Gracie.”
“Oh sorry, hey Stacey.”
“No….Gracie with a G.”
“Ohhh okay haha sorry Tracey.”
Just. walk. away.

9. “How is a girl like you single?” Glad you asked - would you like a Word doc or Excel sheet?

10. “So are you like, going to blog about me?” Homeboy, you’re lookin’ at it.

xoxo G

crispy, creamy, and crazy.

I don’t think it’s any secret that I love to review just about anything and everything. I’m an opinionate gal, what can I say? So here are three new reviews – all quite different from each other – and each lending to the sassy little title of this post.

First up…

Crispy Cat Toasted Almond Bar.

I randomly grabbed this bar from my favorite natural food store a few weeks ago, and it quickly became my new favorite treat. The inside is a crispy Luna-like bar but with chunks of almonds throughout, and the outside is coated with a thick layer of dark chocolate.

I found it to be a very hearty bar (especially after refrigerating it), which is why I was sort of surprised when I noticed the “candy bar” label on it.

 

After checking out the stats and noticing that it didn’t really have much nutritional value at all, I guess the candy bar title makes sense. But, I can’t say I ever met a candy bar I didn’t like, so this one is GML approved.

Coppertone Oil Free Sunscreen.

As important as it is to me to protect my skin from the sun, I’ve got to say that I generally despise the texture/smell/overall disgustingness of sunscreen. Luckily Coppertone got it all sorts of right when they came out with this oil free lotion.

It’s super light-weight and not at all sticky like most sunscreens. I also like the fact that I might not end up with pores the size of Rhode Island at the end of a day on the beach. Just sayin’. GML approved.

Black Swan.

Yeah yeah yeah…I’m the one person who has been living under a rock and just saw Black Swan.

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So, what did I think? Well, it was obviously an incredibly well-done film. The directing, acting, cinematography…it was all spot-on. It was even quite entertaining. But, I definitely wouldn’t say it was one of my favorite movies of all time. Call me crazy (no pun intended), but I sort of prefer movies that don’t leave me feeling slightly depressed after watching them. But that’s just me. Not-so-much GML approved.

Did you see Black Swan? Thoughts?

freely be: key holder profile.

Since our mission at Freely Be is to bring freedom to the world, we think it’s important to highlight and support individuals that are trying to make that happen. That’s why we’re going to be continuously featuring keyholders – people who are dedicating their lives to helping others and changing the world.

Our first keyholder is Robby Riggs. Check out this interview to learn more about how Robby found freedom and is now sharing it with others.

keyholder profile: Robby Riggs.

1. What does it mean to you to Freely Be?

To freely be is to be freely known by God, the Father, in secret. It is NOT out of a religious or legalistic lifestyle, just love.

2. How do you live your life in a way that is…free?

Let me begin with my past: I grew up going to church and by the late teenage years, I operated, without knowing in ‘religion’. My spirit and soul was not being satisfied by what I heard of God, what I saw of the Church, and how I ‘felt’ loved by God. Little by little, my relationship with God was dissipating and becoming rules or even a fight to do the right things. Until eleven, my grandfather called me ‘stupid and dumb.’ By the age of eleven, the words became reality and I began to live as this ‘stupid and dumb’ guy in my own thoughts. As I grew up, I doubted my worth and value. I would walk into church and yearn for someone to be real and raw with me with life. In college, I drank to fit in, developed a sarcastic attitude because of my hurt and many walls that I had set up all around me, and pornography began to fill the ‘longing’ of intimacy with God. This combination left me completely alone, dark, and distant. No real connections. No true hope for the future, and just in a wondering state. There had to be more.

In 2008, I went on an 11-month mission trip around the world… to basically discover that I was simply loved. Through all the days in other countries, I found myself completely ‘wrecked’ for someone. Perhaps myself at time, but sometimes for whole communities with no working water, no food for the day or days, and no hope. That year, the Lord started to really speak to my broken places in me, and the process of healing from my past began. I learned that I was free from everything and God really did not see that. Mostly, that He loved me to deeply, and that He is NOT religion, but just pure and simple yet complex love.

Today, I live as a free man. Past shames, and regrets have no rule over my life any longer. I no longer see a ‘dumb and stupid’ man in the mirror, but a brilliant man. Pornography is not my way of being momentarily satisfied, and sarcasm no longer is my defense mechanism around people. In fact, I am able to love deeply without being fearful to ‘fit in’ or even loved back. I understand that if I make mistakes, that God loves me bigger than those - He sees me as HIS Son. My role and identity do not lie in what I do, how much money I make, that car I drive, etc. but only by how I love the person next to me. That is freedom for me.

3. How do you encourage others to live freely?

One of my favorite things is to watch men and women become who they are in this world. When a man releases the bondage, past guilt, and even current situations, I literally see someone come into a position of true confidence - not by their works or other people’s thoughts - just their freedom in God. The bondage might be found in things like their job, attitude of life, worries of everything, the love of money, their past…or maybe it was their father being absent in life, or even authority that abused them. It could be that alcohol, sex, drugs, etc. currently bind them and no one in the church as offered a ear to listen and love to cover it. No matter what it is, I encourage a man to be real and raw with himself first before anything. I would encourage men to understand that in God, they are completely loved, and to not fear intimacy with Him.

4. What is it that you are passionate about?

I am passionate about life in general. Obviously watching people come alive and understanding God and how much he values them is top priority. I am also passionate about the young boy in Africa who has no father, no mother, no family, and now the LRA has captured him and kills innocent people *while he is innocent* because of being brainwashed. I am passionate about the woman in Thailand who has been put into the ‘Red Light District/Human Trafficking’ for her family (And it happens here in the USA). But, I am also passionate about the man who lies to his family and travels across the ocean to be with that woman for a few days for ‘business’… most likely because he is completely lonely- but to know he is worth just as much as she is in my view. I am passionate for the Church today to really be the Church. To lend there hearts out in times of trouble, to not ridicule others, to not despise the ‘other religions’ but to love them deeply, and to bring hope to the people in this nation that are suffering. I am passionate to see a generation of young boys step up today and be Gods hands, arms, voice, feet, for this world. I am passionate for people and I love to fight for those that are hurting, scared, and mostly feel unloved.

5. Other - anything else that may be on your heart or that you want to share?

I believe there are many in the Church that are hurting and sick. They come in every Sunday and are terrified to really share what they believe, what they have done, and even did last night. I desire for them to understand that the Church should be a place of safety, and that there is no room for criticism. I am a man who believes God loves so deep and honestly, wants nothing but greatness for everyone’s life. There is a generation waiting for something different to happen and there is a generation actually DOING and not waiting any longer, and that generation is my generation. I am involved with the younger generation that is currently - in their early teenage years - changing the world one person at a time. Understanding your role as son and daughter of God is crucial, and grasping the love of the Him will completely change your life.

 

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