2. Which is worse, failing or never trying?
I think that this quote I came up with last year pretty much sums up my answer.
I didn’t start living by this mantra until about two years ago. In fact, before that, my life was quite the opposite. I don’t even think I’d want to have been friends with the old me. It’s not there was anything “wrong” with me, but I also didn’t have much going for me either. Sure – I got good grades, graduated college, and had a comfortable life. But I also didn’t have a passionate life, and I played it safe in every possible way. I lacked drive and confidence, which held me back more than I like to admit.
The good news, though, is that I broke free from that and – for the first time in my life – can say that I’m truly happy, passionate, and beyond excited for the future. If it weren’t for some serious risks and trial and error along the way, though, I wouldn’t even be close to where I am today.
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I really love this post. I feel the exact same way and hope that I can be half as happy as you when I graduate and move into the real world..scaryyy.
I completely agree with that sentiment. Early last year the only thing on my mind was making good grades, doing the normal thing and staying safe in ever sense of the word. It was only when I took a big leap, that ended up NOT being the right move for me, did I realize just how passion-less my life was before. Now, I’m pleased to say, I have a lot more that I care about and am much more willing to take risks as a result.
Great post
Love this post! Happy Tuesday
Totally agree. I’ve had a pretty safe life, and I’ve felt stagnant for the past two years… financially secure and gainfully employed, but… too safe. which is why I’m throwing caution into the wind and moving from Los Angeles, my home for the past 11 years (southern california for my entire life), to New York in about six months. I get anxiety (in the best possible way) when I think about it and I can’t WAIT.
I just got an idea for a post I’d like to read from you (if you haven’t done one already?) How to move to New York! 😉 Finding an apartment in itself seems like it’s going to be quite the adventure!
I have to agree with your answer, G. I am also trying to make that my mantra starting this year. I have always lived by, “If you don’t try, you can’t fail.” I can’t fathom how much I missed out on because of it!
This is my year for health, wellness and BIG LOVE!!! I know my guy is right around the corner; the one who makes my liver smile! 😀
Thanks for reminding me of this all the time. I rather enjoy every day and risk being hurt, that worry every day that I will be.
I totally agree
Also, so cool that you were able to notice that in yourself and change it! Love this post!
Good for you! I think that life is a series of going in and out of this phase. Sometimes you need a breakthrough to set things in motion… (I might be writing this for my sake.. ha)
Your quote is fabulous! I totes agree and much rather would know that I tried doing anything and everything I ever wanted, rather than wondering what if I had… Live it up!