You know, I don’t think saying TGIF will ever get old. Thank goodness we get to say that once every week!
I spent my Friday working, sitting outside, making weekend plans, and spending time with the sis. Oh, and obviously there was some blondie action involved.
I think I’m going to start a new trend called the Blondie Diet. Basically, you eat a blondie after every meal. Anyone interested….?
For lunch I had a BLT – Bacon, Laughing Cow, and Turkey.
For some reason I ate this atop pita bread rather than filling it. Okay, let’s be honest…I’m lazy as heck.
I also sipped on the great American soft drink…’cause it’s Friday and all 
And for snackage I made a bowl of homemade trail mix.
The trail mix included:
- hazelnuts
- dried cranberries
- cereal
- pretzel sticks
Sweet + salty + crunchy = best afternoon snack ever 
risk? regret? ready.
For the majority of my life, I’ve been a play it safe kind of person. I never really liked that about myself, but I seemed to just accept the fact that the safe route was the easiest route.
However, over the past few weeks, it seems as though I’ve become a different person. Through a combination of discontentment and recognizing my potential, I’ve gotten this sudden urge to take risks – to really put myself out there and say “hey, world! Here I am. Watch out.” Yeah, that’s a pretty bold statement. See? I’m already taking risks 
All kidding aside, it was a discussion I had with my mom the other day that made me realize that taking risks is not reckless. Instead, it’s an important part of life – a learning process. In fact, speaking of dealing with regret, a crucial realization I’ve come to lately is that I’d rather regret the things I DID do rather than things I DIDN’T even attempt.
I’d rather take risks and “fail” then never know what could have been.
So, without going into details, there may be some big changes taking place in the near future. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t nervous or anxious, but for the first time I can honestly say that I’m ready.
I’m ready to live up to my potential.
I’m ready for new scenery. New people. New memories.
I’m ready to stop dreaming big things and actually DO big things.
- What’s your dream? Are you willing to take risks to achieve it?
- Are you a risk-taker or do you tend to play it safe?
I think the only way to live is by taking risks!!! Go for it— you totally have potential—I can’t wait to hear what the plan is!
Oh risks are so scary! But they are so rewarding. So so so rewarding.
I tend to play it safe until I get bored. Then all heck breaks loose!
I’ve always been known for playing it safe - so practical - but lately, I’ve changed, too. My boyfriend actually asked me if I was having a quarter-life crisis. I guess I am, but it’s a good thing. I am embarking a new business venture and doing so many things that would typically scare the wits out of me. I used to be afraid of failure, but now I’m afraid of missing out on opportunities and experiences. I won’t let that happen.
I’m glad to hear that you are really living each day. Congrats and good luck with each choice you make for your life!
Ugh, at 24 I look back now and wish I took advantage of so much more then I did! That’s life for you! Go for it - try being “Yes Woman” for a day - I play that game sometimes with myself haha. Go with your urges! AND your BLT looks reallllly good! Maybe it’s just the bacon on top haha
Risks are so scary but I think if we don’t CHANGE what we do in our life, we will never have what we truly want. There is no reward without risk!
Good for you girl! I’m trying so hard to get to that place. I take risks in some areas and play it safe in others. I need to free myself a bit more!
I tend to play it safe, I know no fun. i want to take risks. One of them being trusting myself that I can overcome anorexia and overcome the negative thoughts and anxiety that come with it.
Your blondies are AMAZING looking. I’m a risk taker. I’ve moved from Florida to Connecticut with not a friend in sight. It was the best thing I ever did for myself. I learned that taking risks can be scary but the benefits outweigh all of those scary feelings!
Can’t wait to see what risks you take in the future!
I can’t wait to hear what risks you’ll be taking! It seems to me that you have a loving and stable family, which is a huge advantage. If you take a risk and it doesn’t work out, your family and friends will have your back! Not everyone is so lucky. I took a risk and moved to Hawaii to be a live in nanny. I have some great memories from the experience, I learned a lot, but a few things went awry and I moved back home earlier than I expected. It didn’t work out like I planned, but I still wouldn’t trade the experience for anything and my mom welcomed me back with open arms.
Go get em!
Good for you!! The way that I live and make big decisions is I always ask myself, When I’m 80 and look back on my life, will I ever regret NOT doing such and such. That’s how I decided my biggest “bold” decision… to break up with my going-nowhere boyfriend, pack up, and move 800 miles away to a place where I only knew one person. And as soon as I did, I felt a huge weight lifted. You can do anything you want girl, you are young, you are smart, you are strong, and you will make the right choices for you. Keep us posted!!
Taking risks is definitely nerve wracking and exciting all at the same time!! Definitely go for your dreams even if that means taking a risk!
I was definitely taking a risk when I left for my block rotation during my dietetic internship (I went to Hawaii for 10 week!) I was engaged and planning a wedding and still went for it! So far, it has been the best experience of my life (aside from getting married).. my husband (then fiance) was able to visit during after I was finished working and we traveled the island together. We even say that experience was better than our honeymoon (AMAZING!)
Anyway, don’t be scared and just go for your risks that you are considering!
“I’d rather regret the things I DID do rather than things I DIDN’T even attempt.”
I love that quote. I think I’m gonna steal it and put it on my FB page.
Girl, you are adorable! I just love your blog!
I am so in like with that pita sandwich, too, btw!
I’ve always been a play-it-safe kinda gal and it hasn’t done much for me, I’ll say that much. I’ve accomplished a lot but nothing too exciting (other than marrying the greatest man ever, of course!) But, I haven’t really gone out of my comfort zone too much and since turning 30 a few weeks ago I’ve decided to really go for my goals, whatever the price and challenge myself to dream big and cross things off my bucket list! I starting my blog to talk about my first go at figure competing and want to eventually do something in the health/wellness world:)
You’re awesome for realizing this life lesson now while you’re still young (not that 30 is old ha!)
GAHHHH I AM DYING TO KNOW THE DEETS!!!! You, my sista, are amazing
Mmmmm Blondies look GOOD.
I love what you wrote about taking risks… it’s hard to take risks but usually SO rewarding. I’m working on pushing myself past my limits of comfort. Super hard for me due to the mental aspect of not wanting to fail… every little push helps!
Happy Friday!!!
Love it!! I totally agree!
My dream: Teaching English in a foreign country.
No, I’m not too scared. I just have to constantly reassure myself that I will be a-okay.
Awesome post girl! I’m always nervous about risking it all, but it’s sometimes worth it in the end.
“If you’re not willing to take risks, you’re going to lose anyway.” - Mike Oreskes, former editor of the NY Times.
true story
I don’t know what kinds of risks you’re about to take, but all I can say is GO GET IT, GIRL!!! You are an amazing woman; there’s no doubt in my mind that you have the passion and the ability to reach for the stars.
I’ve always been the type to play it safe and stay in my comfort zone. But I miss out on so much fun that way! I’m ready to step it up and take more risks too!
Good luck with whatever risks you’re going to take!
I’d love to do the Blondie Diet!!! Yum! Haha!
I’m excoted to hear more about your next risk-taking adventure.
I want to take one, too. I’m just not sure what to try. Ever been in that boat?
I just had my 22nd birthday this past week and am definitely going through a bit of a quarter life crisis! This is my last year of college, and I have finally decided that after I get that degree I am moving out the the big city and pursuing my far off dreams… Seriously, I already found a roommate and everything, no turning back now! But I figure, we are only young once, lets take these chances while we are still young enough (and bold enough) to do it! I need to take on this world before I become afraid of it!
love.
You are literally reading my mind right now! I am going through the same thing!!!
Glad you have a supportive mom!!!
Wishing you all the best! I am down with the Blondie Diet as well!!!
XOXO
Barbara
I have learned that worthwhile things are costly- just like a great piece of jewelry is costly, worthwhile things in life require us to be vulnerable, risk big, etc. I think you are right in stating that there is a difference in regrets because we never acted, compared with regrets for behaviors we later weren’t happy with…
The 2 biggest risks I have taken in my life thus far were getting married and starting my doctoral program- both have been less difficult than I had prepared for, but incredibly personally challenging, having moments of exposing my laziness or selfishness, but also been inspiring and fulfilling. I tend to wrestle with my naturally fearful side and my risk-taking, “I don’t want to miss out” side… but hopefully the risk-taking side wins more often.
I think it’s good to push outside of your comfort zone every now and then. That’s the best way to either discover new things or reinforce what you already value!
P.S. You’re meals today look really similar to mine. Diet Coke is a good treat, every now and then! (: